The question is - how could you possibly hold this over a guy who isn't afraid to air dirty laundry when he sues you?
As to public embarrassment? Maybe, but if the fear is that he'd be blackmailed to avoid his wife finding out- the cats already out of the bag. Hell, for all we know, his wife might be into kink as well. As long as his kinks don't involve kids or animals, it is no one's business but him and his wife.
John McCain just admitted he was the leaker. Fuck him - send his ass back to a VC prison until he learns some manners.
The media is going to have a rough 4 years because Trump won't play by their rules.